Single or in a relationship there are some things that are just straight up #womanproblems
So I haven’t posted a personal blog post in a while… apologies. I am now in a relationship. A happy, “comfortable” one. So I have been trying to find niche that both my single and relationshiped friends/following can appreciate. What is something we all struggle with? BODY IMAGE. I have been putting a lot of thought in to this realm as of late, since being shacked up I have started to watch my gut grow and I am not impressed. People try and make us feel better with ” you are just comfortable now” when in reality I feel anything but comfortable with my body. So I have decided to take a proactive approach. I am going to dialogue with you all my struggle to get to MY perfect body. I emphasize MY because all we should be trying to do is get to where we are comfortable. That doesn’t mean emaciated and it doesn’t mean a little cushion for the pushin’ it just means ANYWHERE along that spectrum you feel comfortable. No skinny shaming and no chub shaming just straight up acceptance for what makes YOU/ ME feel good.
This isn’t going to be your cushy, feel good blog (although there may be some of that). I am going to be frank about what sucks and why it sucks. I still stand by my mantra of if you don’t like you, no one else will. Whether you are single or in a relationship if you aren’t happy with you, you aren’t happy.
We assume others show love the same way we do - and if they don’t, we worry it’s not there.
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