VIDA SOLA

Jan 23

Single or in a relationship there are some things that are just straight up #womanproblems

So I haven’t posted a personal blog post in a while… apologies. I am now in a relationship. A happy, “comfortable” one. So I have been trying to find  niche that both my single and relationshiped friends/following can appreciate. What is something we all struggle with? BODY IMAGE. I have been putting a lot of thought in to this realm as of late, since being shacked up I have started to watch my gut grow and I am not impressed. People try and make us feel better with ” you are just comfortable now” when in reality I feel anything but comfortable with my body. So I have decided to take a proactive approach. I am going to dialogue with you all my struggle to get to MY perfect body. I emphasize MY because all we should be trying to do is get to where we are comfortable. That doesn’t mean emaciated and it doesn’t mean a little cushion for the pushin’ it just means ANYWHERE along that spectrum you feel comfortable. No skinny shaming and no chub shaming just straight up acceptance for what makes YOU/ ME feel good.

This isn’t going to be your cushy, feel good blog (although there may be some of that). I am going to be frank about what sucks and why it sucks. I still stand by my mantra of if you don’t like you, no one else will. Whether you are single or in a relationship if you aren’t happy with you, you aren’t happy. 

Jan 20

fotojournalismus:

Linda Forsell. Cause of Death: Woman

War (Mexico - Ciudad Juarez)

In Mexico the war is of a different sort. The so-called “war on drugs” plays out between powerful drug cartels that the police and military try to confine but usually end up becoming a part of. Women are under serious attack. Brutal women’s killings, kidnappings and rapes have skirted the path of drugs. Young girls have been found dead in barrels of acid, mutilated with breast ripped off or abducted to be found dead a month later in the desert.

(via darksilenceinsuburbia)

Jan 06
fotojournalismus:

Homs 2011 v Homs 2014 
Via @_amroali
(via futurejournalismproject)

fotojournalismus:

Homs 2011 v Homs 2014 

Via @_amroali

(via futurejournalismproject)

Jan 01

youreworththesacrifice:

bowariella:

yungswaqq:

F*ck reblogging half naked girls, this is beautiful

for all the people who think they wont find someone to love them, flaws and all…

I can never not reblog this.

Jan 01
Dec 04

quote We assume others show love the same way we do - and if they don’t, we worry it’s not there.

— (via wickedbabylon)
Dec 02
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Nov 11
cassandralol:

ink-ception:
oh god
Genuinely perfect

cassandralol:

ink-ception:

oh god

Genuinely perfect